You Are A Reason To Smile…

Hello Sunday!

I am making lasagne today and admiring the beautiful Fall from my kitchen window. I love Sundays because most of them are so relaxed, just like today & I am so thankful for that!

 

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As I may have told you guys that I do not plan to write about a specific thing, I just get an idea or if I think about something while doing a chore, and if I can’t stop thinking about it, I just have to pen it!

I met someone this weekend and have thought about this person ever since!

There are some people you meet, who leave a mark, not only because they are beautiful but their whole existence makes a difference. They are called the happy & positive people!

I have never understood why some people always complain and no matter how easy things are for them, let it be life or anything else in life, they still find something to complain about! I always wonder how someone can do it?

Also I never understand why people don’t let go of their past? Why sticking to things that happened once upon a time? And specially things that make you even more negative?

I have always believed that being happy and positive is something you can decide. Somethings are beyond your control, but attitude and positivity is yours and only yours. You will be surprised to see what your positive attitude can do to you! And I am telling you rite here and rite now…that it can do wonders!  Trust me!

Don’t get me wrong, I know people are different and have different stories, but everyone have a story, you will be surprised to know that the happiest person you are seeing have had the most difficult stories…So take a moment and tell yourself, if they can do it, why can’t you?

So this post is actually a dedication to all those people who face real difficulties in life, but they find a way to smile! And you should know that..Your smile is the most beautiful in the world and you give this life a purpose! So be proud of yourself!!!

No matter where life takes you, find a reason to smile, and most of all …you should know that, YOU are a reason to smile! Never loose hope and never ever think you can’t do it, because you can!

So guys spread positive vibes and don’t always try to be nice. Sometimes you have to take a distance from those whose energy makes you negative, even if it’s for a tiny second!

Take care of yourself and be Positive and stay Happy!

And on this note a very happy Sunday and get ready for a new week!

 

 

 

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Parenting is not easy….

Sitting here on my couch, having a cup of really well deserved tea ( everyday chae), newly washed hair and watching 1st episode of season 5 of Orphan Black….

I want to take a moment and be thankful for all the good things I have in my life! and most of all my sweetest children who make me strong and positive because of their positive natures!

 

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I was thinking that this weekend has gone so smooth. Lately I have been observing that after all the renovation, mess and misplaced things, I get a little stressed and that results in that I get irritated many times a day. Imagine that we grown ups have a tendency to be so stressed so think about children! How do they tackle it!!! It was a time that my son started telling our neighbours that he did not like going home because everything is so messy! Poor thing!!

Multiple times in the past weeks I have argued with my children, and they have argued back which stressed me even more because honestly you think that kids should do everything as they are told to but with growing age, they get different personalities and opinions which should absolutely be heard!

Children love to argue if they feel that grown ups are arguing back! In a hope of taking control we just miss the point and are caught up in this really bad circle. I have learned that all types of arguing is in fact not bad! You just have to understand if their arguing is positive or negative…

Things are luckily getting much better at home as some of you have seen bits of my new home ( after renovation) on instagram stories. I will try to do a post when we are completely done!

Anyways I was saying that I have understood that the more you show your children that you are in a mood to argue, they will keep on pushing your buttons. My advice : Don’t stay in the situation or you will get angry!!

I have started learning about myself and my abilities. Sometimes you experience things in life which makes you so vulnerable and no matter what the situation is, you start thinking from the same perspective. It’s so important to change your perspective. Nobody is perfect but to keep on learning about ourselves is such a brilliant thing. I happen to believe that these past days I have learned to control my irritation and started focusing on if my children’s arguments are positive or negative and guess what I have found out that most of the times, they have a point! And that alone makes things so smooth and I feel that we have so much fun and less arguing!

Making long story short, I am not an expert but sharing a few tips that might help someone because I believe everyone knows these things but sometimes it is magical to hear from someone else, so here it goes:

Listen to your kids and focus on their thoughts. Are they positive or negative?

Think often like a child!

Don’t argue and if you think that you absolutely are right..take a moment, go to your room and think of a good reply.

Play with them,evenwhen you feel it’s a silly game.

Treat them like adults and explain things to them instead of saying ” because I said so! ”

Don’t hang over them all the time, let them find themselves without you helping them all the time.

Guard your anger button and focus on influencing your child’s motivation.

I am working on these things every day but honestly sometimes you just forget what you have learned. Do not feel ashamed of yourself, you are doing a remarkable job and being an angry mom is sometimes totally ok!

And on this note have a good night:-)

PS. Thank you to all those who loved my last post and also those who said that they want to know more about me ❤

Weekend diaries..

Hello diary!

I ve been wanting to write since yesterday but didnt get any time to sit here and write a post….

Well thats not the entire truth!

I did open my blog settings and started fixing a bit but firstly let me tell you about my programming knowledge, well knowledge about anything which has anything to do with technology…well none of these “things” are my friends! And I happen to ignore or learn anything  about them as well…so  here I was sitting on computer, googling with all my heart and trying to find the most easiest way on You Tube. Well I managed to add “Recent post” column ..so that is some progress!

So as I was saying that I was trying to fix this blog of mine last night, which by the way is open for public, so do follow it and tell others to do so too and please dont hesitate to come with suggestions and if YOU…yes rite there I was thinking about YOU!!! So if you happen to be the kindest person in the entire world and want to drop a few tips and tricks.. so do so! That ll be totally appreciated! I promise!

So what am I actually doing here, watching all the links I ve been sent from Happy team of wordpress…well HELLO…they are not helping me at all…I need to learn all from scratch and in this process I am literally scratching my head like million of times ! Thats the reality nowadays, but make sure I am not giving up!

I never do !

And on that note I want you to never give up as well…no matter what that is, keep on going, you ll be strong, if you believe in yourself! Thats what important! I believe I can do anything, anything at all as long as I want to do it. And I have already made so much progress, just starting this blog, knowing that I lack technical skills but I wanted to write and I could not this ONE thing stop me from writing. Through this journey I ve clicked at som many links that I now know what those strange terms mean…

Keep crossing your fingers for me ! More stuff from my day so far will be posted soon. Had a fun day and without any planning and without any invitation , I was standing and enjoying ice skating/ figure skating…Find out more soon…